Is there someone out there that feels like me?

We’ve all heard the skeptics say it: “If my child reads a book about gay people, they might become gay!” As if enjoying a story featuring characters from different walks of life could somehow alter your identity. Let’s set this straight (no pun intended): reading about diverse experiences enriches our understanding of the world without changing who we truly are.

Growing up, I devoured books that told stories of adventure and relationships, predominantly featuring straight characters. I read about the Hardy Boys, marveling at their escapades (while secretly having a crush on them). Did that make me straight? Not at all. I found myself relating to their bravery and adventures, not their romantic inclinations. Rather, it was my understanding of my feelings that mattered. Just like many other kids, I knew I was different, but no book truly confirmed or challenged that. Instead, I longed for narratives that reflected my own feelings and experiences.

What I would have loved to find in those pages were characters like me—boys who grappled with the same questions and insecurities. If I had read stories featuring boys who were on the same journey of self-discovery, it might have provided solace and a sense of belonging that I craved. Instead of feeling isolated, I would have recognized that I wasn’t alone, that there were others with similar experiences. Imagine being a boy reading a book and thinking, “This character feels just like I do.” That validation can change everything.

Everyone, regardless of orientation, can benefit from exposure to diverse narratives. Reading stories about LGBTQ+ experiences can broaden you perspectives, fostering empathy and understanding. It's crucial that we make stories that reflect the spectrum of human experiences - this not only enriches your journey but promotes inclusivity. Books can act as a bridge, connecting readers to a world they may not understand yet - but it won’t change their identity.

In the end, it’s never about changing who we are; it’s about understanding and accepting ourselves and others. That is where Tay and Third were conceived - and I hope their story "clicks" for many.